This is someone who has the best intentions.
Why don’t you get a REAL job?
Why don’t you be a REAL man?
Why don’t you believe a REAL religion?
Why don’t you be a REAL woman?
Do you realise something? The word REAL is defined by them.
They are really saying.
Why don’t you get a job like that one I hate for 8 hours a day?
Why don’t you be have like a man who get screwed by others the whole day?
They are trying to limit who you are, and make you suffer as they do.
Screw them. You know better. Go observe it and see what they really want.
What?!?!? Why would anybody curse themselves?
Think about it, what is a curse? A curse is anything that limits what you are or forces you to behave in a certain way. A fiction witch says, “You are a frog”, and you go around limited to croaking, hopping and eating flies.
Then what is that got to do with cursing yourself. Think about it again, when do you feel, “That is myself”. “That is me” “That behavior is what I believe in”. What is that? That is when you are familiar with something, when you are familiar with something, you are comfortable with it, when you are comfortable with it, you associate it with your inner core. But is it really?
“I can’t be a sales person”, “I can’t learn computers”, “I can’t learn to cook”, “I love to exercise”, “I love to rollablade, skydive” whatever stuff.
Why do you like something or dislike something? Its because you’ve done it and it brough some pleasure to you. If the pleasure happens a few times, suddenly you are comfortable with it and thats what you love. Conversely if you don’t have a positive experience, like getting rejected, or no sales when you are doing sales, that what happens. You go I hate being a salesman.
Think again, what are you doing, you are looking at past history to determine what you like or dislike. YOU LIMIT YOURSELF but ONLY LOOK AT THE PAST!
Who are the sucessful people, they are people who do not look at their past, everything is new, everything is like being in a kindergarten, its new and with no expectation of anything.
Sometimes you don’t even think you limit yourself. If you look at a girl and say “She’ll never like an engineer. (assuming you’re an engineer), you didn’t curse her. You cursed yourself, you set a limit on what you expect, hence you never look for the signs that she might actually like you. You only behave and look for rejection.
Curse yourself?!? Yes you do, and practically everyday you do. A lot of recent spiritual teachers are trying to teach people, stop placing limits on yourself, there are no limits only those you create.
